Jump

A friend in his late twenties is hesitant about starting a relationship. He has way too many commitments and (he thinks) his situation is unstable (I don't understand, in what sense?!). He makes a table of pros and cons. He anticipates the pros but fears the cons.

Seriously, can everything be calculated and predicted this way?

When there are too many things to consider and decide, just remember that you either "win some, lose some, or wreck some".

So don't try to mitigate all risks in an attempt to choose the best outcome. Perfection does not exist.

Just take the leap. Sometimes losing and wrecking are better than staying idle and hesitant.

Go for it!